A mutual friend of mine is sort of like this. She’s younger and less experienced so I don’t begrudge her for that. Well one time, My friend asked her out, but she declined as she was too ‘busy’. My friend is like me… he didn’t wait around and asked her friend out. The chick in question was actually upset at the friend. The friend as the type of girl who goes after what she wants. She got it. With guys, we have either a Yes, or No when it comes to women. With women it’s a ‘ I like him , but not really, yet im ****ed they aren’t hitting on me even though im unavailable and now im upset’.
So crazy tech fan, my advice to you. Either make it happen or move along. Step up and take what you want. If you’re not interested, move along. There is nothing wrong with that at all. Believe me, this maturity in women goes a long way for guys like me who have plenty of options.