There have been a lot of posts lately about what not to do as a college coach and unfortunately enough living examples in recent years including this year of what not to do as a college coach, but let's make a positive contribution to the game and post what we the so-called experts thinks it takes to coach young women in today's college hockey setting at both the D1 and D3 levels. Let's seriously keep this positive people.
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Originally posted by shelfit View PostThere have been a lot of posts lately about what not to do as a college coach and unfortunately enough living examples in recent years including this year of what not to do as a college coach, but let's make a positive contribution to the game and post what we the so-called experts thinks it takes to coach young women in today's college hockey setting at both the D1 and D3 levels. Let's seriously keep this positive people.
I’ve never coached college, and don’t consider myself an expert but after coaching boys teams for 9 years, and girls teams for 5 years I had a unique opportunity, coaching a mixed boys and girls volleyball team of 7th & 8th graders for 2 years. It was a city rec league, but don’t let that fool you, both years there were 2 girls on my team who were also on the travelling team, and some teams had more. This was in a school district where all 4 of the HS teams had appeared in the state HS tournament at least once and 2 of the teams were perennial powers and had won the state HS tourney more than once. There were at least a dozen teams and it was very competitive.
So, did I coach them as boys or girls? Neither, at work you wouldn’t manage males any different than females would you? Every player is unique, so is every team, a coach has to be flexible in how they coach individual players and from one team to another. That’s the first thing I would say, an inflexible coach is going to have problems and less likely to be successful. The second is that there really isn’t a different way to coach males and females, it’s just that you can get away with more “mistakes” with males than females. For that I’m glad, since by the time I started coaching girls, most of my mistakes were behind me.
You can usually tell which team is losing without looking at the scoreboard. Just look at which coaches are yelling. It is one thing to yell to your team so they can hear you, it is another to yell at them. There is a difference and if you do the latter, neither males nor females will appreciate it. Males are generally more willing to tolerate it, but don’t get the idea it is an effective way to coach them. For the short term it may work, but for long term all yelling at them really does is demonstrate that you did not do a good job of preparing your team. And that’s why losing coaches are the ones typically doing the yelling, their team is ill prepared. It only proves you are an ineffective coach.
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I'll bite......
A good coach has to be able to:
- Listen
- Communicate Well
- Be Flexible (good point by pokechecker)
- Know the finer points of the game
- Be a good teacher of concepts
This applies equally to Men vs Women. It has often been stated that Female players listen much better than Male players. Not sure if there is any science behind that, but that would suggest that coaches should also be able to listen to the needs of a female player. To me that is the key...to be able to communicate well which each player on the team as an individual.
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First and foremost a teacher. Yelling is not teaching. A good coach needs to explain the error and encourage more risk taking within the context of the team and game structure.
I think many coaches are afraid of mistakes and, as a consequence, rely on "systems" that reduce their skilled players to automatons.CCT '77 & '78
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Originally posted by OnMAA View PostIt has often been stated that Female players listen much better than Male players.
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A few years ago, I read an article by Anson Dorrance, the current (and highly successful) women's soccer coach at UNC, who was also formerly the men's soccer coach at the same university. He had a great deal of insight into the differences between coaching women and men. The part that stuck with me was with regard to reviewing game film: with men you must show them film or they won't believe that they made a mistake; with women, film review is counterproductive because they already feel bad enough about their mistakes and pointing them out makes it worse.
This suggests to me that the successful women's coaches are those coaches who realize that women are not just men with ponytails.
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Originally posted by Leather helmet View PostThis suggests to me that the successful women's coaches are those coaches who realize that women are not just men with ponytails.
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Originally posted by joecct View PostI think many coaches are afraid of mistakes and, as a consequence, rely on "systems" that reduce their skilled players to automatons.
For example, your strategy and freedom changes in the last 5 minutes of the game if you have a one goal lead.Last edited by OnMAA; 04-22-2015, 03:27 PM.
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Originally posted by OnMAA View PostMany on here do not follow what you say either.
Originally posted by Leather helmet View Post
This suggests to me that the successful women's coaches are those coaches who realize that women are not just men with ponytails.
When you are talking about female athletes at any level, the more successful females will be very similar to males in their behavior, the rules of the game demand it. After all, the games were invented by and for men. Hockey rewards behavior typically associated with males. If anything, other than team work, it penalizes behavior associated with females.
This “secret” I accidently discovered concerning my own daughter. She had first played hockey in the neighborhood with boys and you’d never have never known she was a girl from the way she played. But when she joined organized hockey for girls she was a totally different player her first game. Then back home playing with neighborhood kids she was back to her old self. This happened again the second game and even she realized she was in trouble of becoming a bench warmer if things continued as they were.
It finally hit me, when playing hockey with girls she was behaving as was the norm in other social situations with girls, girl scouts for example. I told her to imagine she was playing with the neighborhood kids when she played hockey with the girls, it was not only OK, it was what was expected (and pointed out her best team mates acted kind of boyish).
If only every other problem was so simple. Her coach commented to me a few games later that she was easily the most improved player from the beginning of the season and she ended up tied for second on the team in goals scored. So it seems that coaches aren’t the only ones that need to be flexible. In fact that is a general rule for success, the ability to adapt to the environment.Last edited by pokechecker; 04-22-2015, 04:21 PM.
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Originally posted by pokechecker View PostThis “secret” I accidently discovered concerning my own daughter. She had first played hockey in the neighborhood with boys and you’d never have never known she was a girl from the way she played. But when she joined organized hockey for girls she was a totally different player her first game. Then back home playing with neighborhood kids she was back to her old self. This happened again the second game and even she realized she was in trouble of becoming a bench warmer if things continued as they were.
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Originally posted by Leather helmet View PostA few years ago, I read an article by Anson Dorrance, the current (and highly successful) women's soccer coach at UNC, who was also formerly the men's soccer coach at the same university. He had a great deal of insight into the differences between coaching women and men. The part that stuck with me was with regard to reviewing game film: with men you must show them film or they won't believe that they made a mistake; with women, film review is counterproductive because they already feel bad enough about their mistakes and pointing them out makes it worse.
This suggests to me that the successful women's coaches are those coaches who realize that women are not just men with ponytails.
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In general, coaching combines the skills needed to be a good teacher with those required of an effective boss. The coach needs to impart wisdom about a subject area, but also needs to manage a group such that it can achieve results through means that aren't always in the best interest of the individual. There may be some differences, at least stereotypically, based on gender. Overall, most people desire the same things. They want to be valued, respected, and considered. To have success, they must also be motivated. If a coach hollers at players, how that hollering is perceived is important. If the team believes that the coach is passionate about the game, the team, and the players, they will likely tolerate more volume and emphasis than if they think the coach is just an abusive jerk. I think most parents love their children and truly want the best for them, but that message often gets lost when the parent criticizes and berates such that the child feels like a failure. In my experience, women are very willing to work hard, particularly if they are encouraged rather than threatened."... And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;" -- Rudyard Kipling
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Originally posted by ARM View PostIn my experience, women are very willing to work hard, particularly if they are encouraged rather than threatened.
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Originally posted by ne7minder View PostI really don't understand your comment about the game being designed for men so women have a problem playing it like men.
the game was designed by men for men, IOW, it follows that behaviors to be successful at it would likely be those typically associated with men, females will only have a problem if they are incapable of those behaviors
look at ice dancing, the opposite example
if you are male you'd better have some grace if you hope to be succesful
good gawd, if we cannot understand one another on such simple topics, is is no wonder that wars exist between nations on much more complex problems
Originally posted by ARM View PostIn general, coaching combines the skills needed to be a good teacher with those required of an effective boss. The coach needs to impart wisdom about a subject area, but also needs to manage a group such that it can achieve results through means that aren't always in the best interest of the individual. There may be some differences, at least stereotypically, based on gender. Overall, most people desire the same things. They want to be valued, respected, and considered. To have success, they must also be motivated. If a coach hollers at players, how that hollering is perceived is important. If the team believes that the coach is passionate about the game, the team, and the players, they will likely tolerate more volume and emphasis than if they think the coach is just an abusive jerk. I think most parents love their children and truly want the best for them, but that message often gets lost when the parent criticizes and berates such that the child feels like a failure. In my experience, women are very willing to work hard, particularly if they are encouraged rather than threatened.Last edited by pokechecker; 04-23-2015, 07:52 AM.
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