Your relationship with your ex...

[Jon]

I get an email maybe once a month. I think I'm more recognized by Pooley at this point... :) I assume I'm normal. (seeing as I am a freak, and all)

[nanookfan]

Don't have an ex. I was born single, I've been single my whole life, and I want to die single. It's the only way to go.

If I did have an ex, I would want to make a clean break from her. She would go her way, I'd go mine, and there'd be no contact between us.

[I BLEED BLUE]

Me and my ex girlfriend(long time) are on good speaking terms, we just dont live anywhere near each other, so we dont get to see eachother that often, but we are still friends.

[ihw30]

HAHAHA lasted about 4 years and now we can't be in the same country.

[unh_hockey]

Originally posted by nanookfan
I was born single



Everyone was born single, even roboshark

[jtwcornell91]

Depends on the ex. One is still a dear friend, along with her husband, and every three visits I realize how lucky we all are she ended up with him and not me.

[St. Clown]

I don't see the last one anymore, it's been a while, too. I used to be bitter towards her, but it's been a while, and it only lasted about a month, so I've gotten over it.

[Jon]

Originally posted by unh_hockey
Everyone was born single, even roboshark

That's the most profound thing I've ever seen on this board.

[Brenthoven]

My most serious ex, we have a nuetral relationship. Once in a great while we hook up for drinks or a night out, but due to different schedules, and the distance between us at this time, and no mutual friends, we rarely see/talk to each other.

[#1BCFAN]

My one and only ex I have is still somewhat an acquaintance...I haven't really talked to her in a while and neither have her friends, she dropped out of college and sorta dropped off the face of the planet....until her mother died this past spring, but unfortunately i couldn't make the funeral...so i don't think she's doing so well right now

[Zudnic]

My ex is very sweet and we broke up on amicable terms... neither of us had it in us to be mean. We broke up because she just wasn't right for me.

[erin]

I never talk to nor see anyone I used to date, and I like it that way.

[UNH '00]

It dawned on me the other day... my last ex, I've been without longer than I had her...:(

I wish we were still friends but that will probably never happen.

[CommAvHusky]

depends on the ex. I have three major ones.

1. made it clear that contact is impossible, but Boston is a dense city and there are inadverant awkwards times where we have seen each other, looks much worse than with dating, feel better about that.

2.moved away still on IM contact

3.still good friends, hoping to reconnect.

[Jon]

Originally posted by erin
I never talk to nor see anyone I used to date, and I like it that way.

So I guess I shouldn't plan to invite them to that "Erin: This is Your Life" show at the next HE Finals. :D

[SteveF]

Originally posted by erin
I never talk to nor see anyone I used to date, and I like it that way.


I'm a terrible person like that.

[TA Jen]

Wow. Of the three truly significant:

1) Last contact (8+ years ago) was good. Then, we both moved and lost contact with even mutual friends. Would love to touch base again, but he's probably married with children...and that would be tough.

2) Don't put me in the same room. Really. Even professionally, which heaven-forbid might happen, really...polite "Hello' and an early flight the hell out of Dodge.

3) Great guy, put up valiantly with the crap leftover from #2, but now...friends. You all might even sight us together in the future, but we're just a little too different. Still, great guy. Still talk on the phone and e-mail. I'd be happy to even be around him and a girl more his type, as long as she wasn't too jealous to let him talk to me. In which case, I'd find him another one (-;

[Bronco]

The only true serious relationship I had (2 years) ended nicely, but we don't talk to each other anymore. Time and distance and her getting married will do that.

[erin]

Originally posted by Jon
So I guess I shouldn't plan to invite them to that "Erin: This is Your Life" show at the next HE Finals. :D

Oh I'd cry :p

Really though, just awkward. And I'm not even gonna say that I "hate" any of them, I just really have no desire to see any of them, and I'm fine with that.

One is worse, because Ryan knows him. And we almost bumped into him last fall (my sister did, was REALLY glad I opted out of going with her that day).

[Kurdatz]

Male Rule #1: Do Not Ever: REPEAT: EVER! Move your entire life 462 miles away from all you ever knew in your entire life for a woman. Ever.

With that being said, yes, I am incredibly bitter towards her.

I was engaged/dating her for 7 1/2 years. While I was deployed to Saudi Arabia, I was told that I was going to be transfering to Madison (she had just moved near here for school). In my mind, this was a good thing. We were planning to get married in July (I moved here in April of 2001). I got off the plane, spent my first day at work called her up to see her after work. When I met her I couldn't beleive it.

She was pregnant. And it wasn't mine.

Crushed isn't a term I would use. Obliterated is more like it.:mad: :(

So now, I can't wait to move back to Duluth. :( This place just brings sorrow.

For six months I was completely anti-woman. Not gay. Anti woman. I didn't want to date a soul. I've overcome it now and have dated since, but for a while I wouldn't date anyone. Cindy Crawford could've thrown herself at my feet and said "take me now" and I would've yawned. It was pretty bad. But now its better.

People can be evil.

We still talk, but very seldom. And its very rigid, not the way it used to be.